He is friends with me and my little brother, but he is older than two of us around the 17th is also friends with some of my friends. Well, once a week and some of our other friends get together and go bowling. It is not always every week, but it happened more often lately. Anyway, last night we were all there, and he must be very annoying. First, he holds a heavy bowling ball on my head and keep it there all, and until I told him, there’s more. And he always touches me and our two friends, two young girls. Once, when I sat beside him, he tapped me on the arm so hard that he is a world left on my arm for most of the night. A group of people, including my mother and my aunt was really angry about this and threatened to hurt her. When he finally said he was sorry, he rubbed my left arm, where he on the mark. Finally, I just got up and sat on the ground, because the seat can rest beside him. I was not going to try, again! And he tried to hit on the arm friends, too, but they did not leave behind what he saw on my arm did. And he would always keep his feet when I walk in to try and I went on a trip. At one point, he was practically on one of our friends. She told him repeatedly to stop but he did not. So, they finally all got up and sat elsewhere. Then he grabbed my bag and rummaged through my wallet and got to see how much money I habe.Er hangs over our house with my brother before, and it always bothered me, too. Once, he even put his arm around me and my brother noticed and teased him to learn. It is also sometimes the elbow on my shoulder and keep it there until I told him to stop. He did not always listen well. Well, I do not know how all this way, it really starts to annoy me. What is his problem and how can I stop? Thank you!
How can I make this guy stop touching me?
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A pimp slap always works for me, and there’s no mistaking what your meaning is. Physically take his hands off of you (or your belongings). Some people don’t respond to simple language.
P.S.- He sounds extremely immature for a 17 year-old boy. Perhaps he is a little slow mentally. Either way, that is no excuse for his behavior. Nip it in the bud.
JUst yell at him to stop.
just scream “STOP TOUCHING ME OR I KILL YOU” LOL
a fifth of tequila or a restraining order
i didnt read the above…but i dont think i have to….. file for sexual harassment on his @ss!
hmmm this is a tricky one… how about…………….
tell him to…………. STOP
duh..??
sounds like this guy has some issues, doesn’t know how to deal with girls
TELL HIM TO F ING KNOW IT THE F OFF!!! GOD!!!!!!
WTF IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE WEN THEY TOUCH U!!!?????????
awww he likes you
I highly recommend calling the police. You and your family also need to have a talk with him and his family about his behavior. He needs strong discipline.
start getting mad at him and tell him to leave you the hell alone or you’ll get the cops on him.
yeah the screaming and shouting is a good idea just make sure its a very public place
fuck the kid up
just tell him, i he doesn’t get the message, pull out. if he still doesn’t get the message, knee him in the nuts
simple.
tell him.
get ur nasty hands off me before i punch u in the face you nasty freak.
tell him to stop. loudly. in front of a bunch of ppl. tell him he is annoying and innapropriate and that you DONT LIKE IT.
Sounds like he’s lacking in the social skills department. Also sounds like an 8 year old kid who likes someone. Those two facts together could be the makings of a pedophile – WATCH OUT FOR HIM!!!
He likes you duh!!!!!!!! tell him to fuck off and that he shouldn’t touch you anymore. sometimes you have to get angry and yell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He’s a jerk and he has a crush on you and possibly your friends.
When he’s over, make yourself scarce. Stay out of the way or hang with your parents when he’s over. This guy sounds unbalanced and he could cross some serious boundaries.
Umm… Well his problem is HE IS A GUY! I’m not gonna go and say all guys are messed up but alot of them are at that age! I know from experience. All you can really do is ignore him and set CLEAR boundaries. If he dosnt listen to those then all you really can do is stop hangig out with him and avoid him whenever possible!
Yep definitely a slap…
Tell him that you will report him for abuse..
Because this behavior often leads to rape so be careful and stay away from him
Cause one time, at band camp… blah, blah, blah. And then one time at band camp… yackety, yackety, yack. And then another time at band camp….. What was the question again?
Threaten him
im not kidding just coz ur a chick doesnt meen they cant be scared and dont play around with him one minute then try to be serious the next stand firm
I told you not to tell anyone…
Make it very clear that you want him to leave you alone. Have your father with you when you explain this to him again. He is having problems controlling himself and he is alienating himself from those around him. He obviously does not socialize well. He could be ADHD. Tell him he has got to stop this behavior because you are afraid you could get hurt or you don’t feel comfortable. It is like bullying. Your words have not worked thus far so you need a parent or adult friend to help you make your point. Don’t be a victim.
Tke two steps back and smash your foot into his nuts. That should make your feelings clear.
he probably like you and is a really annoying flirter!!
I would tell him to beat it and go find some new friends b/c he is being innapropriate with you and your freinds and not respecting your personal space. And if he is this bothersome, why havent your parents told him that he isnt welcomed anymore?
make sure your brother knows how you feel about this. so if the guy trys anything infront of him your brother can call him on it. The guy is more likely to stop if your brothers shows dissaproval.
As for yourself, have you tried setting this guy aside and asking him why he is behaving this way? sometimes the simplest way is the right way.
i hope this helps, if not, let me know and il try and help some more
x
He sounds extremely immature. He’s doing all the things that 8 year old boys do to get a yucky girl’s attention. Given his age and the desire to be cool, tell him to stop being so immature when he does those things, and walk away. That would pretty much hit him where it hurts–right in the ego.
Well it seems to me like he is trying to get your attention. He may have a crush on you but since he is only 17 and obviously has little to no experience with male female relationships, the form of attention he is getting is bad. I have seen this behavior in elementary school children.
It is actually a very common form of courtship among guys who need to mature and learn how to treat girls. Guys hit eachother sometimes in a jest of friendship but it should only be another guy and not a girl. Even among guys he should not hit to cause injury. I grew up in a Military Academy with all guys so girls were always something special to me.
When I was in the 4th grade, I had a crush on my teacher who was one of only three females in the military academy. I used to write her little love notes and leave them on her desk with flowers. She still has all my notes in a little box that she has kept for the last 33 years !
Your friend just has a little growing up to do. Would you be less upset if he gave you flowers and wrote you poetry ?
He is at that age where he needs to learn how to show his affection towards girls in a better way. This will come with time. I am almost positive that he has a crush on you. The signs are all there. Maybe he hit you so that he would have an excuse to rub your arm. Him putting his arm around you was also a big clue, however I don’t think he should have been teased for it. I think he hit you on the arm because it is more of a ” guy ” thing and he didn’t want to be teased by your brother. He is obviously afraid to show his true feelings for fear of getting teased by the guys. Your brother needs to grow up a little too.
If your brother had a girlfriend, he would not be so quick to tease your friend for liking you more than as a friend. It all becomes so clear when you read between the lines.
I hope this helps.
Sincerely,
Jason Maltz
US Army Signal Corp.
Force Protection / Threat Detection / Communications Specialist inactive
you need to tell your parents and your brother not to let him in the house again because you don’t want him there. Tell them how he treat you and you really don’t like it. Once he find out how you really feel about him he may stop. Maybe you really have to hurt his feelings to get your point across.
And if that doesn’t work you and your frinds get together and whip his a**. Then he will know you mean business.